Friday, 7 November 2014
Carving time out for yourself is crucial when you have children. The other day I snuck in a matinee with a group of friends. Part of me felt guilty going to a movie while my children were at school but that quickly faded as the lights went down and my feet went up in the cushy recliner chair. We were seeing Gone Girl. I was very excited. I had read the book and couldn’t wait to see what they had done with the movie. I was pleasantly surprised. Then I started thinking about my poor friends that didn’t read the book and did not know what they were in for…wow. It’s definitely a movie where you need to be in the right frame of mind when you sit down. The movie is a work of fiction but as I sat there I thought about how many people can probably relate at some level. Two young people meet and fall in love. They get married. Recession hits. They lose their jobs. Parent gets sick. They move home to care for parent. Parent ends up dying. Fast forward five years and they cannot stand each other. I will leave it here as not to spoil it for those who have not seen it.
I should probably clarify that I am happily married and not a psycho. We’ve been married almost 13 years and we’ve been through a lot. We have struggled through custody battles, the birth of three children, the recession, job loss, aging parents, and starting a new company to name a few. Life is tough. Marriage is tough. We are not living in a bubble. It is important to find a way to continue to not only love each other but actually LIKE each other. We always joke that we used to be so much fun, what happened? Life happened. It’s happening. In Gone Girl, the husband isn’t a bad guy and she isn’t awful in the beginning. Life just happens. Struggles will continue to present themselves. The secret is to keep remembering why you liked each other in the first place. It’s not always easy. But there is always someone out there with a situation worse than your situation. Focus on the positive and work through the other stuff.
So thank you Gillian Flynn for yet another reminder that I love AND like my husband.
Monday, 3 November 2014
This just in: The Joovy TooQool is featured as one of seven double strollers in the Pregnancy & Newborn feature titled, Twice As Nice. See why P& N recommends this luxury ride. Click on the cover to view the entire digital glossy, cover to cover!
Friday, 31 October 2014
I hope you and your family enjoy these jokes as much as we did!
Why was the jack-o-lantern afraid to cross the road?
It had no guts.
What do witches put on their hair?
Where do baby ghosts go during the day?
Why did the witches cancel their baseball game?
They couldn’t find their bats.
How do you make a skeleton laugh?
Tickle its funny bone.
Thursday, 30 October 2014
Joovy makes the cut! Check out which Joovy stroller is picked by New York Family as a top choice and ‘wheel deal’! Click the image below for the scoop.
Monday, 27 October 2014
Just wanted to send you a note of thanks. Joovy has become part of my family now. As you can see in the photo attached. It’s my sister’s 5 month old daughter. They live in France. I t’s the Joovy Room playard. I passed it on to my sister when she had her baby. And my son still travels regally on his Joovy Groove stroller which is as sturdy as can be. Many people ask about it or look curiously at the stroller.
Thank you. May the universe send you ten fold.
PS: we also have a Joovy training potty thing for our son. He loves it.
Friday, 24 October 2014
There is a newer Halloween tradition called Halloween Boo or Booing. It is usually done in your neighborhood. It is similar in nature to the tradition of Secret Santa at Christmastime. It involves leaving a treat and a note saying, “You’ve Been Boo’d” on a doorstep, ringing the doorbell, then running and hiding as fast as you can. When our family got boo’d last year I thought, “Oh great, another thing I have to do.” Well, last year, I was a party pooper and did not participate. Things changed this year. After we were boo’d, the kids were so excited and wanted to spread Halloween cheer, so we did. And I have to say it was the most I’ve laughed in a long time. The kids sat down and picked four families that were a little outside of their inner circle of friends. They wanted it to spread through the entire neighborhood. They felt if they picked their friends, it would just keep circling. The kids took the booing very seriously. They huddled before we began Operation Boo. They were like stealth military operatives going through the neighborhood. I would stay a house or two away and they would sneak up, leave the treat, ring the doorbell and RUN! They had dogs barking at them, unhappy babysitters and a few tumbles into the bushes. All and all it was good, clean fun. If you want to start your own Halloween Boo, just follow these steps:
- Pick about 4 families.
- Pick a treat to deliver. It could be candy, cookies, pumpkin bread…get creative. Our family chose a box of BooBerry cereal.
- Download or create a Boo gram. There are thousands to chose from online.
- Deliver, ring doorbell and RUN!
Please like this post if you have ever been BOO’D!
Tuesday, 14 October 2014
On your parenting journey, you’ll discover some pieces of gear are way overrated and some, you truly couldn’t live without.
Since I get the opportunity to review many manufacturer-supplied products at no cost, like the Joovy Foocot, I truly get to see some great products that I would have never known about, as well as some doozies that make me question how they got to market at all.
For our family, the Joovy Foocot has been one of those accidental discoveries that, like a carpet cleaner when you have a sick kid, you may not realize you need it, but once you do, you’ll never want to go without.
In our family, we have many uses for the Joovy Foocot, but these are our 5 favorite.
The Joovy Foocot easily becomes:
The Sick Bed. Once of my children suffers from febrile seizures, so whenever he is sick, I want him close by. With the Joovy Foocot in two seconds, he has a separate, safe sleep space that is close enough for me to monitor him, but far enough apart so that he doesn’t overheat and we can still all sleep comfortably. Since a fitted crib mattress protector pad fits it perfectly, we put that on for added comfort and protection, should a middle of the night mess occur.
- The Guest Bed. When my niece and nephew are visiting, no problem! With more kids than we have beds, the Joovy Foocot comes to the rescue. With a small footprint, it sets up easily in one of the kids rooms and everyone is happy to be together.
- The Vacation Bed. When we take our annual trip to New Hampshire with our family friends, the youngest non-crib sleeping child gets to sleep at the foot of their parents bed in the Joovy Foocot. We couldn’t fit two extra twin mattress on the floor, as there wouldn’t be room, but with the Joovy Foocot, my family of four can bunk in one room easily and comfortably.
- The Travel Bed. Grandparents tend to think bed sharing with a toddler or preschooler will be fine; until they’ve experienced it firsthand and ended up with a foot in the stomach at 2 am. The Joovy Foocot is so easy to set up and is lightweight so grandma can give junior his own safe and separate sleep space right next to hers in a flash.
The Camping Bed. While we haven’t made it out of the backyard yet, during our practice runs at home, the kids have loved being off the floor of the tent and up on the Joovy Foocot. The comfortable and familiar sleep space makes tackling the outdoors a little easier for our little ones, and as a result, everyone gets a better rest.
The Joovy Foocot supports children up to 48 inches and 75 pounds. For the price of renting a rolling cot for your hotel room during a vacation, you can have a Joovy Foocot on hand to use anytime, anywhere.
Michelle LaRowe is a mom, award-winning nanny, parenting author and executive director of
Morningside Nannies, a Houston based nanny referral agency, and editor in chief of eNannysource.com.
Friday, 3 October 2014
Get ready moms! I am going to let you in on my new favorite website…gatheredtable.com. I want to take you back a month to where I talked about the importance of family dinners. I was trying to take some pressure off myself by stressing the importance of sitting down together, not making a gourmet meal from scratch. Gatheredtable.com is a website that helps you provide both! There are countless websites out there that put together menu plans but in my opinion, this is the cream of the crop. It allows you to create a profile with not only how many people you are cooking for but also how many adults and how many children. It also lets you input food allergies, food aversions, and gives you the ability to rate meal options on a scale of how much you like them.
I’ve been using the website for about three weeks now and have made some great new recipes. These recipes were not only delicious but also easy to make. Our dinners have included Bolognese sauce with pasta, teriyaki fried rice, minestrone soup, baked ziti with sausage to name a few. The website can pair all main courses with a carb side, a veggie side and a dessert. You get a weekly menu that you can edit and the best part is the shopping list it comes with. Grocery list…check!
This site also allows you to add your family’s favorite recipes. You can manually add them or use my favorite feature, the web clipper. This web clipper allows you to “clip” your recipes from a website and then it dumps them into your menu preferences. This is an absolute must do to make sure that you get the most out of the site.
My life is simpler because I always know what is for dinner. I am much more relaxed at dinnertime. The shopping list is set or you may add the rest of your shopping needs to it. This makes visits to the grocery store less frequent and I’ve also saved money by not buying extras.
I’ve actually been setting the table and we’ve been sitting down to real conversations. After we take turns sharing our daily highs and lows, the conversation gets interesting. Bob brought up the subject of hobos the other night. Eva said that he should call them homeless because hobo was not a nice word. Then she added that he didn’t even know what a hobo was. Bob quickly responded with a yes he did, “It’s a man without a wife!”
Please join gatheredtable.com right now. It’s free and it takes less than 2 minutes to get started. You will be amazed how much stress is lifted when you know what’s for dinner.
Tuesday, 30 September 2014
Check out the latest issue of Pregnancy and Newborn, on newstands now! Don’t miss this mention of the “clean freak” HiLo that converts to toddler chair after it’s highchair mission concludes.
Friday, 26 September 2014
We were in the first full week of school. I was excited to begin my organizing project. Just when I was about to start, I received a phone call from the school that my 5th grader was sick and needed to come home. I remembered that she told me she didn’t feel well the night before and then again the next morning so I dropped everything and went to pick her up. As soon as she got into my car, she seemed a little better. She said it was a stomachache and a headache. That was understandable. We’ve had abnormally warm and humid weather and our schedules are back in full school time swing. I took her home to rest, not thinking much more about it.
When bedtime came, I sat down on her bed for a goodnight kiss and she just unloaded. The tears began to flow and she told me she wanted to be homeschooled. She loves her teacher and is excited for everything she will learn this year but doesn’t like recess and lunch. She said that she doesn’t like them so much that she gets a stomachache when she even thinks about it. She said that nobody was being mean to her but she just didn’t fit in. This broke my heart because she is a happy, kind and caring girl. She is the daughter who wakes up happy and always sees the good in people and situations.
Once we ruled out homeschooling as an option (no way this mama could do that) we began to come up with ideas on how to handle lunch and recess. She is much like me. She is shy, quiet (until she gets to know you), and a rule follower. We talked about learning a new joke to share with friends. We talked about volunteering for lunch duty with the kindergarten class. We talked about practicing piano in the music room. We talked about taking a soccer ball to school to practice juggling. After our conservation, she felt better but STILL wanted me to talk to her teacher about getting off the playground during lunch and recess. So I made the appointment.
A few days later, she came home and told me to cancel the appointment. She had worked out the problem on her own. She decided to just walk up to her peers and start a conversation. She put herself out there. Everyone was kind. She was happy. And I was relieved.
Kids need to learn how to make friends. We are a social society. We did all the “right” things to socialize our daughter. We joined a playgroup when she was 6 months old, she did three years of preschool, and she played sports in our community programs. How do you give them confidence to make friends? When they are miserable at school, how far do you let it go before you get involved? When do you contact the teacher?
Please share your thoughts and stories.